See Yourself through a Lover's Eyes
10 ways to transform your self-perception
TEN WAYS TO SEE YOURSELF THROUGH AN ARDENT LOVER'S EYES…
Take ten times more photos of yourself. Schedule selfie sessions—and get a hundred shots. Peep yourself throughout the day and snap a pic. Get used to seeing yourself over, and over, and over, because volume changes perception.
Turn your pics upside down. Or sideways. Look at yourself from a new perspective—see the negative space, the contrast, the silhouettes. This is how artists learn a new language of vision!
Imagine you’re looking at your obsession. Think of someone you’d put up on your wall and stare at every day. What if THEY were the one in this image or reflection? How would you look at them? What happens when you bring that feeling into looking at yourself?
Touch unexpected places. Close your eyes and run your fingers along places you don’t usually notice: the back of your knees, your hairline, the side of your waist… get curious about the experience, and take turns focusing on the feeling of touching and being touched.
Notice what makes you glow. Pay attention to how you respond to input throughout the day. What lights you up? How can you spend more time in glowy mode?
Create luxury, romantic experiences. Spend solo time doing the things that spell ROMANCE to you—whether that’s a candlelit bath or an indie punk rock show. Let yourself get totally wrapped up in being with you.
Get fascinated with intricate details. Tap into the tiniest things you notice about yourself: the scar on your pinky finger, the sensation of your upper thighs on a leather seat, the quick heartbeat that signals anticipation. Let the little things stop you in your tracks and go “whoa, what an incredible body to exist in!”
Choose a part of yourself to fall head-over-heels in love with. Maybe it’s the fourth toe on your left foot. Maybe it’s your elbows, or the natural shape of your cuticles. Be incredibly specific and decide that every aspect of that part is absolutely spectacular, exactly as it is right now. It’s okay if this feels silly! It’s amazing practice to change your perspective.
Record yourself saying something HOT. Then listen to it while you’re pleasuring yourself. Play around with different voices.
Be your own dom. Try (safely) self-tying with ropes, teasing yourself, pulling your own hair… whatever way you like to top or be topped, try it out 100% on your own.
Your body is a divine, glorious being to be ardently adored.
That’s why I’m inviting you into a a luxurious evening of romance, where you’re the center of attention from beginning to end. It’s a one-on-one private virtual retreat where you learn a new way of seeing yourself. Discover the vibrant, unseen beauty of your body—way beyond skin deep.
Become someone who wants to know, see, and feel EVERYTHING about yourself. Get infinitely self-absorbed in the best way.
Imagine getting picked up in a private limo, watching the sunset from a twinkling patio with your favorite meal prepared by a private chef, and allowing a magnificent evening to unfold at a leisurely pace.
We’ll create that intimate experience by collaborating from start to finish:
Learn how to take selfies that enchant you
Express your deepest desires with simple writing
Connect to your spirit + free yourself from judgment
In one day, you’ll learn exactly how to look at yourself with reverence and delight. You’ll have a simple roadmap for minimizing body shame, taking up more space, and letting your real personality shine.
Two ways to join!
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Either way, 10% of proceeds will go directly to the Palestine Children’s Relief Fund. I’ve already raised over $600 via direct donations and $26 more as a portion of recent income. While I’ve been feeling overwhelmed by the genocide in Israel, I want to make a meaningful impact—and your support is essential.
Much love,
Nat (they/them)