Remember telling secrets, whispered in the dark? Gripping the edge of your sleeping bag with the absolute thrill of being “in” on something BIG. At a certain age, knowing each other’s secrets was what being “best friends” was all about. Keeping each other’s secrets was the stuff of legend.
Where does that special kind of connection go when you grow up?
Connection is a fundamental human need. After food, clothing, and shelter, it’s the primary thing we’re all seeking—one way or another.
Do you look for it via sex?
Were you taught that your body must be “good enough” to deserve connection… so you get sidetracked?
Do you seek adventure and intrigue (and end up alone, drinking champagne at 2 am)?
Did you lock down a partner early, to try and feel secure forever?
Do you seek money, fame, or power—hoping to be a people magnet?
Do you try to insulate yourself from the pain of loss by keeping connection at bay (while convincing yourself you’re happier alone)?
Some of you do have incredible connections in your life: friends, partners, children, colleagues, roommates, communities, and more. Still…where did the magic go?
The joy, the suspense, the wild possibility?
When you were 12, you felt everything so keenly. Every slight. Every snub. Every time you were “chosen” and the fucking unbeatable feeling that came with it.
Are you waiting for your real life to begin, and wondering what alternate dimension the years are being squeezed into? Where is that other path you could have taken, the other life you could have lived, the other loves that you missed out on?
Maybe you’ve forged your own path, but you long for the ease and simplicity of fitting in.
Maybe you did exactly what you were told, and you’re questioning whether you read the right manual… and what happened to your dream life that was supposed to be a magic wonderland.
This weekend, I’m dipping into the underworld with my retreat participants, to find and unwind barriers to connection—and unlock relationship magic that truly goes beyond the tired old scripts of Grown-Up Land.
Fortunately, you don’t have to be here in person to do this journey with me! I’m opening up 6-month, 1-on-1 coaching opportunities that go right to the heart of your desire for connection. We’ll discover how you’re seeking connection now, map out where you want to be, and create a treasure map that takes you directly to those untold, unimaginable riches.
(The best part? The treasure is already within you! I’m just going to guide you toward finding the scary coves where it’s hiding out, and befriending the ghosts who are guarding it with their lives. I promise—YOU ARE CAPABLE OF ABSOLUTELY INCREDIBLE RELATIONSHIPS, and they’re well within your reach!)
$5k, 6 months—pay in full (bonus: lifetime membership to my upcoming group program!)
And if you just want to practice a little connection with me, sign up for a free connection call.
Your legend is waiting to unfold!
Much love,
Nat (they/them)